Monday 13 January 2014

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How To Relieve Stress By Listening To Your Body's Signals
What is Your Numbing Strategy?

Dr. Neha Sangwan 

"Your body is sending you messages, whether you’re aware of them or not." -Neha Sangwan, M.D.

Over the last decade as a Doctor working in hospitals, I was surprised by the number of times learning the skills to communicate helped alleviate my patients’ physical symptoms and even helped them get rid of a dependence on certain medications.

Communication Helps Relieve Stress

Research shows that communicating effectively helps us better cope with stress, nurtures our relationships, and enhances our health and self esteem. Those who have solid relationships where they can share their emotions and feel supported tend to live longer. Those who feel misunderstood report a higher rate of depression, which weakens the immune system and makes them more vulnerable to disease. If more people knew this, I bet they’d get serious about having courageous conversations, no matter how awkward they might feel initially.

Anyone can learn to communicate better, and a great place to start is with your own internal communication. When the internal signals you receive from your body match your values and the actions you take, you will likely feel calm, peaceful and aligned. When you’re not aligned (in other words, when you override your body’s signals and take action that is different from what you really want) you may feel overwhelmed, upset or disconnected. How could you possibly communicate effectively with others when you are ignoring what your own body is telling you?

Listen To Your Body's Signals

Your body is sending you messages, whether you’re aware of them or not. These physiological signals are unique for each individual. For example, some people experience a racing heart because they’re nervous about having a tough conversation; others feel low energy for the same reason. Stress may cause one person’s stomach to churn and another to start sweating excessively. How does your body communicate with you and demand your attention?

Listen To Your Personal Alarms

For a long time, I didn’t recognize my own alarm signals. As a physician, I had learned to override by body’s signals to endure a rigorous training with 36-hour continuous shifts. My throat used to tighten up so much that I’d have to leave the hospital to get fresh air whenever our chief asked, “Who is going to volunteer to cover the night shift?” Still, I would often commit to the extra shifts even when I was exhausted, just because I wanted to be perceived as a team player. Physical signals from your body can mean that you need medical attention, so always make sure to get checked out by your health professional first. I consulted two physicians who verified there was nothing physically wrong with my throat. It was only then that I realized I was ignoring my body’s messages. When I said yes to the team, I was saying no to my own self-care.

Now that I can decipher my body’s signals, my throat constriction acts as a friendly reminder not to over-commit.

3 Questions To Help You Tune in to Your Body

1. With whom or in what circumstance do you experience the most difficulty communicating?

2.What physical signals from your body tell you that it’s challenging?

3. What do you do with that information?

What Are Your Own Stress Numbing Strategies? 

Our body’s physiological signals (e.g. jaw clenching, stomach churning), can be uncomfortable. Rather than listening to these internal signals, we often use our own time-tested numbing strategies that work—temporarily, anyway. This is how we ignore the messages coming from our bodies, rather than taking the time to address the root cause. Do any of these common strategies sound familiar?

1. The Sugar-Caffeine Buzz Strategy – My presentation got criticized in front of everyone—I feel sick to my stomach. I need a chocolate chip cookie and a double latte so I can get back to work.

2. The Numb It Out Strategy – I’ve been in this relationship way too long. I don’t want to deal with it today. Every muscle in my body feels tense. A few glasses of wine will take the edge off and get me through the night.

3. The Denial Strategy – My virtual world is much easier to deal with. My real life gives me a headache - literally. If I call my brother, he’ll probably ask if he can borrow money again. Let me see what’s happening online.

Whether you use sugar and caffeine, numb out with alcohol or simply avoid the conversation all together, these strategies all have something in common. They work—for a few minutes—to change how you feel. And if you’re really good at it, they work for months and even years. Call them what you will; the truth is they’re all Band-Aids. They are temporary strategies that don’t solve the underlying problem that our bodies are trying to alert us to.

Once you are able to recognize and decipher your body’s signals for the warnings that they are, you are better prepared to engage in effective communication.

To identify your numbing strategies, consider these 3 questions:

1. When you’ve agreed to do something you didn’t want to do, what brings you comfort? (That’s your strategy!)

2. If you gave the strategy a name, what would it be?

3. How long is the strategy effective?

Be Friends with Yourself

To Friend another nowadays takes the click of a mouse. To Friend yourself is a much more difficult task. It means considering your own needs and wants as you engage with the world. It’s a delicate balance and a constant negotiation. It’s also learned behavior; because it’s not something we typically learn growing up.

Thanks to Facebook, Twitter, and our smart phones making us available 24/7, balancing work and home life is getting tougher every day. Yes, we’re mobile, but are we ever really off? As the world becomes more and more connected, isn’t it astonishing that many of us manage to stay current with the status updates of our 500+ Facebook friends? Yet, when was the last time you checked your body’s status update? It’s probably time to Friend yourself.



After reading above  Status   sudden thought sparks  in mind  and i write  again  Beautiful Note  On face book  , and sharing here .. clicking point was " " How To Relieve Stress By Listening To Your Body's Signals What is Your Numbing Strategy?~ Dr. Neha SangwanM.D."   & " Your body is sending you messages, whether you’re aware of them or not." - Neha Sangwan, M.D." is a Beautiful thought and excellent  presentation  ... 


its gives me  different dimension to thought towards Life approach  ... is this  same Path  of different walkers also ? who  is  before stand  and who is comes after , doesn’t matter  and do not give Argue like a kid , be a child alike  in grasping ,

all are running  to same direction .... Religious read  Granthas and  saying , Spiritual believes  in teacher and disciple ..  Medical  appears  in therapies , and Science  History and Geology  are in explorations  and  researches ... Music  is appears to give  beautiful push  in blocked  expressions .
and sudden  all become s Divine . and more close to God ... either  it is  from Astik  or from Nastik.. 
Priest / Pujari Maulvi ,   Sufi / Saint , Scientist  or Philosopher ,  it may appears in one's Psychology  to giving effort  to live  life happily and ever joyfully . Only difference is  can visible in approaches  not in way , way is Only One  and destination also One .

I think ,  healing is the daily therapy   for   anyone .. either they  understand  to need or not ..  but Purity as well impurity  is surrounded everywhere , every time  in atmosphere . willingly  or by force  One have to deal with . 


To deal with toughness  many of us opt  different ways in the  from of  Personal strength  Development eg; Psychological ,  Spiritual  and Religious  ways  and many more  ways eg; socialization , to get over busy  in work , to get over busy  in Home   , all are the Over  is type of imbalance of the type of extrovert and introvert ...  to whom suites  whatever  according to their  natural tendencies . 


No term exist  right or wrong  while   to find  balance  for life .. Often people  know  closely  they trying to correct others , why !  because  they find  some kind of imbalance in  others , that is very easy . because eye  always can see in front ; so that 99.99 %  people are judgmental  some how some where .  
But In the end  the  one sentence  is ever correct " life is to live Joyfully " no other substitute  for . 
and all are doing same ! where is the difference ? 
i read also there  major  points 

* try to commute  best  to distress (in frequencies ) 
* try to listen personal Alarm system of Body 
* try to catch Body signals appearing cause of stress 

(no matter  you follow   which path  but symptoms will be same  body  is natural  and  can not  define themselves  according to us  distinguish definitions ) 

ultimate  nutshell  of any path - " Be Friends with Yourself ".

try to understand essence of life   believe it ....... it is  not  so difficult , as  simple  as easy n effortless breathing . 

Om Pranam
Om Pranam 

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