Any emotions those giving hits major are based upon LOVE . Find Two types of LOVE EXPRESSIONS - 1- gives freedom and survives only in freedom . 2- surrender self freedom and survives only after takes others freedom.
Both gives feeling of surrender , its a biggest event in any one's Life .
in first one love is Rare and Free ; gives freedom and takes freedom in response. though dedication is full . sincerity is no doubt .
In second type (its very common) it is full of authority , Its fairy and Its Dreamy away from reality even not ready to accept realities . you can say ; Its a kind of illusive Self-Hypnosis In first appearance its looks this authority is surrendered fully in front of love . but definitely it is unknowingly false surrender . in very deep core tiny desire is rooted to get same surrender back in favor . this type of business if not successful it brings swirl and storm with self . this type of love covers all Gunas of Rebelliousness , Jealousy , Anger , Body Beauty and lust to grab .
And this is painful-end for who are In love . its all Illusive pains . .
Under Logic its difficult to convince drunken people that you are not in right path , your love is not of right quality . who will get agree of this ? In this Blindness result will appears in front of others as lessons , but not for effected persons, he or she already comes under damage ... than what should have to do ?
It is very sensible Point :- according to Society according to family and friends (cos friends are also reflection of person Only due to same guna attraction ) person get groomed self personality and right & wrongs , it means root thoughts Influenced to thinking according to Interest and it become Karma and according Result comes . This way person make self destiny in all innocence and ignorance .
This is also different action , which type of personality is good , what have to do for right love and right partner , life is not according to design or under wish . life is a Flow A smooth flow of sequences and consequences.
But here scene is different , in all ignorance if result is bad , than what to do ? people are in pain , poison get attacked , than ?
Keep in mind ! Either Happy or Sad Emotions always works as swirl or whirl-wind , appears comes in force , ruins and passes away .. after passed its feels as Clear sky after heavy Rain ... and what left inside to collect and to restore . with mindful wise .
It looks but its not like , cos , it attacks again and again just like sea waves in high tide , same with power as before they appears , till than one is not control over self through settle in Center, One need actual preparation and awareness to protect from harms . Because those emotional swirls are not friend of person it is very sure , they are so poisonous , most time people not hesitate to finish self or vis o verso . Keep in mind , help to self if wisdom is left or you may help others (if needed or asked ) these strong decisions are just in drunken stage . those not wise its feel after passes storm.
Heart chakra get weaken at this stage , need to get strong by Internal Fuel . get settle in center to resolve the Issue . and if your settlement of center is really worth and correct , its Sign ; you will get different type of love vibes , these love vibes are just like cool breeze , very fragrant , not dominating , not rebellious , not Jealous , not produce anger , not ignite to look Body Beauty and no any lust to grab that soul , Or passionately surrender fully .
This kind of love is just like free and happy bird , all open hands not close fist . this kind of love only want happiness for self and for lover . and be in trust its kind of love happens in this word here only . And this kind of love produces Soul-mates .
How this happens ! its a basic whose get activated their center , only those can serve this kind of love . their wisdom direct connected with fruitful thoughts , they love themselves as strong same as they love their partner . Yeah ! self love self awareness is must to understand definition of humanity .
Self love > Self Awareness > Soul mates > Humanity > Gratitude > Surrender > acceptance > Joyousness > Happiness > Satisfaction > Understanding > Listening > Respect. all are the Beautiful Garland of One quality to get settle in Center .
Though human history is full of different kind of love-affairs just for an example to understand more famous love-affairs in History 1-Meera to Krishna , 2-Radha to Krishna , 3-Budhha to Lord ,4 - Kabir To Lord , there are many in wordily great love examples , but these are divine and easy to catch , One and two are passionate and dedicated love Blindly so that they had great pain also on that same quantity . Meera get hypnotized in her very childhood age due to in her parent's reply they gives her statue of Krishna as husband to her and she get dedicated as she was Hindu and Rajput . they have their Scocial bondage and culture , and she have had exact personality within and Radha get Hypnotized due to his live personality , she was exactly on his time . And five to six loves are example to bloom love lotus in freedom of divine love with only acceptance. Budhha and Kabir was total free and same serves freedom to Lover . On today you can see love affair of Ma Anandmurti or Ma Anandmayi,they are total divine and free , without any self hypnosis of any relationship . just one relationship is with Center of Love .
Good & bad is essential and attached alike two sides of one coin in entire wordily affairs ( selection is not comes under wise choice ) Soul is pure and Body ( physical and emotional ) is with all impurities , accept this fact wholeheartedly , very first accept this universal truth to self and after with partner and than accept this fact to entire world , just set priority of self life and self love . If you love self you always able to give healthy love . Neither get possessive for self nor for partner . Just live happily and let to live with ever happiness . Accept ; under acceptance fully to partner with all good and bads together . Come out with Pictorial love affairs are just for mostly entertainment they are not reality of life . Though few are present Philosophies and few are documentary few are historical they have massage to Society in their making . For Commercials They are not made to Sevres Reality to you , its may mirror of Social acceptance due to unfulfilled thirst or cos of any half wish of any dream seeing by youth So that Pictures are mirror Image of Society . as people want they attempt to make same and as picture make its reflect the emotions of Society , Both are Mirror to each other Both have great Impact on each other , Still ; Films are Dream world and they are fully dedicated to serve Dreams; cos its producer's business for money to make another film from profit.They have different Goals and different marketing strategies , and definitely your well being is least concern in their mind . You should have your own concern ; wisely . Not only fashionable films or dominating upon minds media but any reading listening and watching ways which are absorbed by you and gives riples towards out of world .
Be wise and be safe .